Warning: Spoilers for NCIS: Origins season 1, episode 15

NCIS: Originshas had a few plot holes so far, but the show’s latest episode just fixed one of its biggest mysteries about Mark Harmon’s Gibbs. Since its premiere,NCIS: Originshas mostly followedNCIScanon by featuring key characters and moments from Gibbs' life in the early 1990s. TheNCISspinoffhas especially ventured into Gibbs' grief following the death of his wife and daughter.

Mark Harmon as Gibbs staring thoughtfully at a paper in NCIS

As Austin Stowell’s Gibbs has mourned his old life, he has turned into a comparably softer character than Mark Harmon’s Gibbs inNCIS. TheNCISprequeleven shows the young Gibbs attending a veterans' support group.The character differences between Harmon’s and Stowell’s Gibbs have become one of the show’s biggest plot holes, butNCIS: Originsepisode 15 just solved it.

Young Gibbs Attending A Veterans Support Group In NCIS: Origins Contradicts Gibbs' Emotional Progress In NCIS

Young Gibbs Is Noticeably Different From Old Gibbs In NCIS

InNCIS: Origins, Gibbs is much more emotionally vulnerable to those around him, especially to his mentor and best friend, Mike Franks. The biggest example of this is seen in howGibbs chooses to attend a veterans' support group after contemplating joining for several months.NCIS: Originsepisode 13, “Monsoon,” shows Gibbs meeting fellow veterans in a safe and calm environment. His decision to be vulnerable to strangers is a major step in his emotional progress. However, it contradicts Gibbs' later emotional capacity in the flagship series.

Mark Harmon’s Gibbs is stoic, cold, and reserved. He rarely talks about his issues and, when he does, he does not usually continue the conversation at a later point. In fact,it took years of character development for Gibbs to even feel remotely comfortable opening up to his teamabout the loss of his family in the early seasons ofNCIS. The reserved Gibbs inNCISdoes not correlate with the young and emotionally matureGibbs inNCIS: Originsseen attending support groups.

Mark Harmon as Gibbs driving his car in the NCIS season 3 episode

NCIS: Origins Episode 15 Reveals The Veterans Support Group Isn’t Helping Gibbs

Gibbs Struggles With Sharing His Problems

Despite attending the support group regularly,NCIS: Originshas confirmed that the group does not help Gibbs.NCIS: Originsepisode 15, “From The Ashes,” shows Gibbs leaving the support group shortly after being asked to share his own experiences. Gibbs joined the group for help, but so far, he has only been able to listen to the others. He has not felt comfortable sharing his struggles in return.

“From The Ashes” goes even further and shows Gibbs revealing that only Franks has been able to help him emotionally. However, Gibbs' issues have nothing to do with Franks. The reason Gibbs feels that only Franks has been able to help is becauseGibbs has only ever opened up to Franks. As the agent in charge of Shannon and Kelly’s murder file, Franks has seen Gibbs go through the worst moments of his life. He has become both a mentor and a friend to Gibbs because Gibbs has let him in.

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Gibbs does not have a relationship with anyone inNCISthat compares to the one he has with Franks inNCIS: Origins.

Therefore,the support group is not helping Gibbs because he won’t let it help him. He does not share his struggles, so the other veterans in the circle are not able to offer support and advice. Listening to other people’s struggles can only help so much. At some point, Gibbs needs to push past the block in his brain and let people in so that he can grieve and heal in a healthy manner. Unfortunately,NCIScanon shows that is not the case.

The Flagship Confirms That No One Was Really Able To Help Gibbs Fully Process His Grief

Gibbs Never Learns How To Open Up

Based on Gibbs' emotionally reserved personality inNCIS, he never learned how to truly process his grief. When he joined NIS in the early 1990s, he learned how to throw himself into his work. InNCIS: Origins, Franks helps him deal with the immediate aftermath of the loss and encourages him to slowly start to piece his life together again, but beyond that,Gibbs is left alone.He doesn’t have a relationship with anyone inNCISthat compares to the one he has with Franks inNCIS: Origins.

What Happened To Gibbs’ Wife & Daughter In NCIS

The tragic past of NCIS' Leroy Jethro Gibbs' daughter and first wife, Kelly and Shannon Gibbs, is vital to the exposition of NCIS: Origins.

InNCIS, Gibbs also struggles romantically. He has several wives and relationships, but they all fail, with many of them being short-term romances too. Gibbs' struggles in his personal life could connect back to his inability to fully process his grief. He can never truly commit to his partners because of how devastating his first losses were, which act as a mental block. Maybe Gibbs' life would have been different if he had learned how to open up, but that just isn’t his character andNCIS: Originshas reaffirmed that.